the feeling, emotions, thinking, all are nothing but the timing .its the state of mind and situation gives it a meaning. if we remove the context and natural predetermined factors, then we'll realize that all are same ..they all mean nothing..are nothing. they are not the exercise of will power or fate..rather all of them are manifestations of some rules and implicit properties by which we all are wired neuro-chemically and physically , no better than the way the dead, non-living materials are wired.